Oct 16Is This Good Enough?I woke up this morning to a stranger on the internet tagging me in a post about how disappointed they were. In me. Listen, internet stranger (who supports my work — thank you!) I have a drama degree. I suck at math. I have a very basic understanding of science…8 min read8 min read
Jan 15, 2021Member-onlyRooted/UprootedMy husband and I made a pact when we got married. We’d live in Houston for five years; then, we’d move. Somewhere beautiful with good weather that we could take for granted. Somewhere with hikeable spaces, mountains perhaps. Somewhere that didn’t morph into a lethal body of water every time…Change12 min readChange12 min read
Feb 19, 2019Member-onlyAnother YahrzeitOn Saturday, I thought I was going to die. The world outside the car turned white in a matter of minutes, and my Uber driver explained that this is the worst time to drive. Right when it comes down. The roads are so slick, so suddenly. He’d much rather drive…Death4 min readDeath4 min read
Dec 19, 2018Member-onlyPlease Give to My GoFundMe Campaign to Fund Other GoFundMe CampaignsMy name is Stephanie Wittels Wachs, and I’m launching a GoFundMe campaign to fund other GoFundMe campaigns. Specifically, health-related GoFundMe campaigns. After a judge in Texas ruled last week that parts, and therefore all, of the Affordable Care Act were unconstitutional, I joked that I should start a GoFundMe campaign…Healthcare8 min readHealthcare8 min read
Apr 18, 2018A Layperson’s Guide To Dealing With A Grieving Mess of A PersonAs a little girl, when I looked into my future, I didn’t see GRIEF SPOKESPERSON written on my name tag. On the whole, I’m not a bummer of a person — I swear. Alas, someone who mattered a great, big, major deal to me died suddenly and tragically, and the…Death8 min readDeath8 min read
Apr 3, 2018Don’t Read The Comments Or A Piece About People Who Think Drug Addicts Deserve No Love, Empathy, or Compassion. Even After They Die.We all know the First Rule of Internet. Let’s all say it together: Don’t read the comments. Don’t. Read. The. Fucking. Comments. …Addiction6 min readAddiction6 min read
Feb 20, 2018This Is A Yahrzeit, My DearLast night, on the eve of my brother’s yahrzeit, we taught our four year old about death. It wasn’t a conversation we planned to have nor that we discussed for a single moment prior to having it. It wasn’t some big, grandiose thing that we all sat down and braced…Grief7 min readGrief7 min read
Jan 14, 2018Donald Trump is Head LiceAt some point, life began to feel like an obstacle course. Not a cute little obstacle course like Candy Land with one or two manageable hurdles. One of the obstacle courses you see in movies about military training that involve lots of mud, oppressive bodies of water, and perhaps giant…Donald Trump6 min readDonald Trump6 min read
Aug 30, 2017Art After HarveyIn between 24 hour news benders, a solid 48 hour panic attack, back and forths between my mom’s and my house to assess water damage, entertaining a stir-crazy, cooped-up three year old, eating ALL OF THE SNACKS, and donating items to recent Harvey evacuees, I’ve been thinking a lot this…Nonprofit3 min readNonprofit3 min read